Timewasters in Atlanta

Over Thanksgiving, I went to visit friends in Atlanta. My logistics this time were actually very good, I had been hooked up to "apartment-sit" in one of the hottest lofts in town and had the place mostly to myself. This made it all the more frustrating when I encountered more flakes and more timewasters. Initially, …

Vacation Game with bad logistics: +1 Argentinian Flag

One aspect of Game I haven't quite figured out yet is how to improve my success rate despite bad housing logistics. Unlike many others in this sphere, I don't make women the focal point of my life, much less my vacation time. I travel often, but mostly with friends, and we often share AirBnBs or …

Yohami breaks down the texts before a flake

Yohami and I had an email exchange about one of my texts in the Flaketober post. He's given me permission to post it here (edited for clarity) for further perspective and learning. Yohami: Hey man, practice not asking questions - 4 texts, 3 are questions. Big no-go Pancake Mouse: I'm really, really struggling with seeing …

Stood up

When it rains, it pours. Yesterday, I wrote that I was experiencing the biggest drought of my life in terms of flakes, including the "hot girl from Portland", my last number number in October, who I thought would flake because I had to change the venue last minute. Well, I was wrong. And then immediately …

Flaketober

I have an abnormally low rate of getting girls out on dates, and I'm trying to figure out why this is. So here are all 25 numbers I collected in October (all from online), my notes, and a screenshot of the texts before the flake, if relevant. I've categorized these the following ways: Ghost - …