Stop writing “OLD” in place of “online dating”

It's not an actual acronym. Online is one word, not two.It's already a word: "old". Consider the sentence "I'm getting new OLD photos taken". ...You're getting new old photos taken?It's unnecessary. If you really feel like "online dating" is too much for you to type out, say "online" or "apps" or "swipe apps".

The First 100 Lays: By The Numbers

I hit lay number 100 last night, and I thought it would be fun to do a little breakdown. Though numbers are numbers, they of course fail to accurately represent the amazing, fun experiences I've had along the way. I have truly enjoyed getting to know every girl I've ever been with and (hopefully) leaving …

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The Beginner’s Guide to Maximizing Your Looks

Intro The extant looksmaxxing information available on the internet is hidden away on obscure internet forums and private groups. This is my attempt to rectify that by providing a basic overview and synthesis of what can be done to improve male looks, organized by body part. You'll have much better return by bringing up your …

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Daygame and Nightgame in Miami

From November 2021 to February 2022, I lived in Miami and gamed obsessively, racking up near-daily daygame sessions, ~25 nightgame cold approach sessions, and ~10 nightgame sessions running a promoter's table at more exclusive clubs. The following represents my personal experience as well information from around dozen local wings. Overview I found that Miami was …

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What proportion of women are actually approachable in daygame?

I've always marveled at how so many days seem to have ample street volume, but a very low amount of sets. To test this, I sat down at a table on Lincoln Road, the most prominent daygame destination in Miami, at 1:45 PM on a Tuesday, and categorized the 66 girls that walked by during …

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How to Approach a Girl You Suspect You’ve Approached Before

I am the king of reapproaching girls. In seven weeks in New York City this summer, I reapproached a couple dozen girls, some of them up to three times. At first, I was worried, awkward, and angry at myself for this, but after more than a few of these experiences, I developed a process to …

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What I Learned From Going Viral On Twitter

Yesterday, I tweeted this: I had expected that this tweet would get some attention inside the community, and it did. What I didn't expect was it to start going viral outside the community. Because several Game coaches retweeted it, some crypto twatters took note and started quote tweeting like mad. I assembled ~150 quote tweets …

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Why “Just Be Social/Normal/Natural” Doesn’t Work (For Me)

The most common advice I get, usually from naturals or advanced guys who don't know me that well, is: "You're overthinking it!" "Just be fun! Just be social!" I don't mind this advice: it's coming from a good place, and it actually is helpful to a point. For beginner guys who are in their own …

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