I've been thinking about what makes a good promoter lately. First, let's start with the top three tangible complaints I hear about other promoters: Unwanted sexual advances: "He wouldn't stop touching me even though I just wanted to have fun with my girls" (by far the top complaint in terms of impact/frequency)Boring/not sociable/no attempt to …
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Why Am I Making the Switch to Club Promoting?
For those not familiar with VIP hosting/club promoting, it's where clubs pay someone to bring attractive girls in to party for the night with the hope that their presence will entice men to buy bottle service and tables (which can form around 80% of a club's take on any given night). To incentivize girls to …
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Stop writing “OLD” in place of “online dating”
It's not an actual acronym. Online is one word, not two.It's already a word: "old". Consider the sentence "I'm getting new OLD photos taken". ...You're getting new old photos taken?It's unnecessary. If you really feel like "online dating" is too much for you to type out, say "online" or "apps" or "swipe apps".
The First 100 Lays: By The Numbers
I hit lay number 100 last night, and I thought it would be fun to do a little breakdown. Though numbers are numbers, they of course fail to accurately represent the amazing, fun experiences I've had along the way. I have truly enjoyed getting to know every girl I've ever been with and (hopefully) leaving …
The Beginner’s Guide to Maximizing Your Looks
Intro The extant looksmaxxing information available on the internet is hidden away on obscure internet forums and private groups. This is my attempt to rectify that by providing a basic overview and synthesis of what can be done to improve male looks, organized by body part. You'll have much better return by bringing up your …
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Daygame and Nightgame in Miami
From November 2021 to February 2022, I lived in Miami and gamed obsessively, racking up near-daily daygame sessions, ~25 nightgame cold approach sessions, and ~10 nightgame sessions running a promoter's table at more exclusive clubs. The following represents my personal experience as well information from around dozen local wings. Overview I found that Miami was …
Hard Case
Today, I found myself asking my wings: "What 'tactics' can I use to make a girl more compliant?" Yes, I, a grown man, was robotically asking a group of other grown men "How can I get a girl to like me?" The irony was not lost on me. This spurred a tidal wave of thoughts …
What proportion of women are actually approachable in daygame?
I've always marveled at how so many days seem to have ample street volume, but a very low amount of sets. To test this, I sat down at a table on Lincoln Road, the most prominent daygame destination in Miami, at 1:45 PM on a Tuesday, and categorized the 66 girls that walked by during …
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How to Approach a Girl You Suspect You’ve Approached Before
I am the king of reapproaching girls. In seven weeks in New York City this summer, I reapproached a couple dozen girls, some of them up to three times. At first, I was worried, awkward, and angry at myself for this, but after more than a few of these experiences, I developed a process to …
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Yohami’s Rules of Text Game
Context: way, way back in the day (actually like 2-3 years ago, but feels like forever ago due to the pandemic), we would all gather on Nash's blog, Days of Game, and argue with/learn from master Yohami. On one of the posts in March 2018, Yohami compiled the best information on text game I've ever …