Why “Just Be Social/Normal/Natural” Doesn’t Work (For Me)

The most common advice I get, usually from naturals or advanced guys who don't know me that well, is: "You're overthinking it!" "Just be fun! Just be social!" I don't mind this advice: it's coming from a good place, and it actually is helpful to a point. For beginner guys who are in their own …

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