Pancake’s Golden Rules of Group Photos on Apps

Also known as “preselection photos”. So many guys try to slot these in, and so many screw them up so badly they’d be better off not including them.

Follow the golden rules:

☐ You must be the center of attention (most important)
☐ It must be immediately clear which one you are
☐ Everyone in the group should be high value
☐ You should height- and faceMOG most or all of the men in the group
☐ Everyone should be displaying positive body language towards you

Optionally:

☐ Photo should be in a high value location
☐ There should be women in the photo, and they should be of the archetype you want to target
☐ Everyone else in the photo should be in the same “tribe” of the women you want to target

Great Example

Hits every single rule, including the optional ones:

Good Example

Nice-looking location, has attractive girls in the photo, and they’re displaying reasonably positive body language towards him (though the girl on the right could be better). He’s hover-handing, but it’s not too visible. It’s clear to the trained eye that he doesn’t know these girls, but most won’t notice.

Poor Example

Our dude is on the left. He’s not the center of attention. There are girls in the photo, but they seem to be ignoring him. Everyone in the photo is ugly. The photo is a selfie and it’s low quality.

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